The future of the family is hidden in a father’s choice. Elevating his family to heroic dimensions of success or leading his family through a spiral of destructive experiences are easily disguised in a father’s choice.
When father’s understand the purpose for his family, their choices become more powerful and less destructive. The mental process of judging multiple options and selecting one of them is a process many fathers face fearfully.
A fear based choice is a decision that produce confusion and arguments in the home. A choice based on freedom increases responsibility and stability. Reaping and sowing are principles that support a father’s daily choices.There is always a time for sowing and a time for reaping. It is impossible to reap a home environment filled with love, joy and peace without exercising the choice of consciously sowing these values into the family first.
Every choice is connected to a predestined consequence that is already fixed. We do not have the power to determine the outcome of these choices. The ability to choose life (following a family purpose statement) or death (choosing to live without a family purpose statement) is the most powerful decision a father will make in his life time.
Making the right choice always produce peace of mind. This predetermined consequence is a result many father’s willingly choose for their family. Making the wrong choice always produce an unstable mind. This predetermined consequence is at the root of many separated and divorced families.
The investment of time, effort and mentorship in developing a purpose for the family is a cost many father’s MUST pay in advance. However, it will cost much more LATER, if he chooses to lead his family without a purpose.
The power of a father’s choice is in choosing not to envy an oppressed mind, nor choosing none of his ways!
Resource: http://www.BrooksandBrooksFoundation.org
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